God desires to be your first responder, not your last resort.
What makes us want to try to fix all of our problems on our own, without asking God for help? What makes us feel that the world is expecting us to be totally self-sufficient if we are “real men” or “strong women?” God wants to be the first one you think about, not the last one you go to after you have exhausted all other avenues. Of course, even then, He’ll oblige.
What problem are you grappling with today that you need to turn over to God?